What is an ashes scattering ceremony?
Do you need permission to scatter ashes? Get the answers to frequently asked questions about this popular memorial ceremony.
What is an ashes scattering ceremony?
An ashes scattering ceremony - sometimes known as "casting" or "throwing" ashes - is a ceremony where the ashes of a dead person are scattered.
This can take place almost anywhere so long as you get the relevant permission. It could be at a person's home, in a place of natural beauty or on the beach, to take just three examples.

Like any kind of memorial ceremony, a scattering ashes ceremony can involve readings, poems, eulogies and shared memories.
It can be held instead of a traditional funeral or as well as one. Many people find it a personal and intimate way to say goodbye to someone they love.
Do you need permission to scatter ashes?
If you own the land where you're scattering the ashes, you don't need permission. If, however, you're scattering them on privately owned land, you should ask permission.
This could be from a private landowner, an organisation such as the National Trust, your local council or the government. If you want to scatter ashes in a crematorium or cemetery, you'll need to get permission from the owners.
You don't need permission to scatter on bodies of water but you are encouraged to consult Environmental Agency guidelines beforehand.

It's worth remembering that if you scatter ashes on private land, the land could be sold. This might affect you if you want to visit the location in future.
What are some special ideas for scattering ashes?
Like all memorial services, ashes scattering ceremonies can be as simple or as elaborate as you like. You can invite people to share memories, poems and eulogies. You can scatter flower petals with the ashes, light candles and encourage people to put memories of the person who died in a memory box.
Some people choose to plant a memorial tree as part of the ashes scattering ceremony. A small portion of the ashes is mixed with the soil. This creates a "living tribute" that loved ones can visit again and again.
Sometimes, people take turns to rake the ashes into the soil. This is a way of getting people more involved in the ceremony.
Scattering ceremonies can be grand, too. People have been known to release butterflies, launch balloons and set off fireworks. The ashes can even be dropped from a plane or sent into space.
Scattering ceremonies FAQs
Where can ashes be scattered?
Ashes can be scattered in most locations. You just need to ensure you get permission from the landowner. You should also consult environmental guidance before scattering ashes in the sea or on another body of water.
What can you say when scattering ashes?
An ashes scattering ceremony is similar to any other kind of funeral or memorial service. People can read poems and eulogies, share memories and sing songs. There are no rules, just personal preferences and the wishes of the person who died.
How long should you wait before scattering ashes?
There's no set time limit for scattering ashes. Some people scatter them soon after receiving them. Some wait weeks, months or years. Others choose to keep the ashes at home and never scatter them.
Are there rules and regulations surrounding scattering ashes?
Scattering ashes in the UK is legal. The number one rule is that you need to get permission from the landowner before scattering on private land. You should also consult guidance from the Environmental Agency before scattering ashes on the sea or bodies of water.
How much does it cost to scatter ashes?
It's free to scatter ashes. You might incur costs if you hire the location for the ceremony or require transportation for guests.
How long after the cremation do you receive the ashes?
In the UK, families or next of kin usually receive ashes between one and 14 days after the cremation. The exact length of time will depend on the location of the crematorium and any individual policies or procedures it follows.
Are ashes bad for the environment?
Human ashes are not a biohazard. They are, however, high in alkaline and salt. This can be harmful to plants when scattered in large quantities.
Can you grow a tree with ashes?
Yes, you can grow a tree by mixing a portion of human ashes with soil. However, ashes are high in pH and salt. This can be harmful to plants. For this reason, some people use a specially formulated soil or planting mix.
Organise a scattering ceremony in London with AFD
At AFD, we can help you organise an ashes scattering ceremony. We offer a listening ear and clear, compassionate guidelines at all stages of the process. Get in touch via
our webpage or on our 24/7 phone line on 020 8355 7876.
